Read this article for marital advise before getting hitched

Read this article for marital advise before getting hitched.

If any of you and the upright individuals are unmarried, you should marry them.

The righteous ones is the essential phrase that I want to emphasize, dear brothers and sisters.

Take a look at the standards that Allah SWT established.

https://quran.com/24/32

We are not advocating ignoring other significant elements like kafaah, compatibility between spouses, and other personal wishes or requests, things you hope for in this individual as a man or woman.

We are discussing the bedrock.

We are discussing the foundational element of the marriage.

We are discussing things that will stand the test of time.

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Marriage is a challenging path where you may have to make really difficult decisions in that married connection.

And as humans, we base our decisions on the values we hold dear.

And as muslims, the pleasure of Allah SWT and the practice of Islam are our top priorities.

Because you and your spouse are both singing from the same hymn sheet and are in the same waters, it will be simpler for you to make those difficult life decisions the more Islam you and your spouse share.

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Making those decisions in life, however, becomes very difficult when the foundation of religion is absent or when you and your spouse are on completely different levels since you didn't take it into account before getting married.

Simple questions like where we will send our kids to school might lead to arguments.

Do we intend to put money aside for the hajj the following year?

Are we going to set aside a room in the house for family prayer?

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Where should we get our meals from? Are there halal and haram foods?

How much money are we making in this home?

Simple inquiries can into a point of contention.

Take a look at how the prophet Muhammad SAW underlined the value of discovering righteousness in both the male and female.

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Regarding the men, the prophet Muhammad SAW said in a hadeeth that Imam Al-Tirmidhi narrates on the authority of Abu Hatim Al'Muzany, "If a man comes to you asking for the hand of your daughter in marriage and you are satisfied with his religious commitment and you are satisfied with his manners, then accept that person."

What was the husband's condition?

Akhlaq, etiquette, and faith.

It's odd that they both arrived together.